Resolved Question: Restraining Order On Me From Another State? Please Help, I Need Info!?

28 January 2012, 5:58 am

PLEASE HELP! This girl and I had a falling out a couple months ago. Since, I've tried to contact her a few times through where I wasn't blocked (I'm blocked almost everywhere) She's in Ohio and I'm in NJ, by the way. She's claiming that I'm stalking her and harassing her, but she's exaggerating greatly. I've never even made a threatening remark towards nor about her. In the past couple of months, I asked her for something back that I owned, through raptr; I posted an apology letter in a couple emails and on twitter and google+, but I'm blocked on twitter, so I couldn't send it directly to her; I've commented on posts that she's made on google+ a couple times; and she writes for a website and I've posted on there to some of her work, but that was related to what she wrote about, and I also do the same for other writers on the same site. not only her. So now she's acting as if I'm stalking her when she doesn't even speak to me because I'm blocked almost everywhere, but also harassing her. How am I harassing her? I don't threaten her, and I've only tried contacting her on a few different occasions. And she's blowing things way out of proportions when she's telling her friends about all of this. She's talking about how scared she is of me and what I might do because she gave me her address a while back when I went to go visit her a few days before thanksgiving, when she claims I tried to rape her and I've threatened to steal her panties, which are bald-faced lies. Since her recent post being about getting a restraining order, where I'm not blocked for some reason, I posted that I'm finally through with trying to make amends with her, she's acting ridiculous. So, my questions are, can she even get a restraining order on me, being that she's in Ohio and I in NJ? And if so, what does that mean for me? Am I going to have to travel out to Ohio to appear in court or something? Or am I mostly unaffected by this because like I said, I barely try to contact her in the first place? What are her chances of even getting an order in the first place, being that she's exaggerating everything that's happened/happening? And what should I do, what could I do, what might I have to do? PLEASE HELP!... Read More »